Dear readers,
Amaran: Every birth is a different story, readers' discretion is advisable.
Hello,
Tergerak hati nak menulis pengalaman bersalinkan anak dara ku yang sulung ini, selagi babak2 itu masih segar dlm ingatan
12April2010
Due date bersalin
Rumah
0200hours
Mata tak boleh lelap, asyik dok fikir kena induce kah aku hari ni? Camne rasanye sakit ke?Atau kena tunggu lagi beberapa hari? Berapa kali dah dok ulang alik ke toilet mlm tu nk kencing..suami kat sebelah dah lama in la la land.
Then suddenly i heard 'pop' sound. Takdela obvious kuat giler, tp tau la something is happening inside.. Tak lama pastu terasa panas je, celah kaki. Ni sah ni waterbag broke, sbb takleh nk control air tu.Tgk kat tilam dah basah..Cepat2 kejut suami, he woke my parents, pastu siap2 gi hospital. Masa tu tgk jam kul 4.30am. Contractions takde lagi. So i relax je la, siap bfast.. Pack last min stuff, posing amek gambar.. Baru gerak
Dah nk dekat smpai kul 6 camtu baru terasa mild contraction, start timing dlm 20 mins apart. Gi kat emergency then terus je kena wheel to labor room.
Masuk labor room, tukar baju spital nurse bagi ubat beron. Igt kan kena mkn, rupanya ubat tu masuk kat lubang bon, dia pam kan supaya dpt kuarkan apa yg patut di keluarkan. Memang iye, tak sampai 5 min, terus gi toilet. Haha.. Berkesan betul. Lepas tu alat CTG utk monitor heartbeat baby and me di pasang.
Masih boleh senyum kambing lg masa ni

Then nurse check bukaan serviks,
" tarik nafas dik.. Sakit sikit ye"
" ni baru 1.5cm, takpe, awak masuk wad dulu k, nnt tunggu doctor sampai"
"ni rasanya ptg dah bersalin dah ni.. Kalau tak kita jumpa lg la mlm ni masa shift saya"
Kata nurse sambil tersenyum manis.
* telan air liur*
0730hours
Suami settlekan urusan admit wad, i kena wheel to wad.. Masa ni contraction dlm 15 mins apart.
Camne rasa contraction? Dia cam rasa cramp masa period, tp mungkin skala kesakitan tu 4-5 kali ganda, lg dekat nk bersalin lg kuat sakitnya. Dia start from belakang, kat area pelvic bone rasa cam ditarik2 n berat urat2 semua pastu baru rasa kat area ari2. Sakitnya tu Tuhan saja yg tau. Masa ni apply breathing tehnique, boleh help to get through it. Kalau boleh jgn jerit sbb boleh drain your energy. Just take deep breath, pastu slow2 hembus. Baca doa2 yg patut..masa ni husband play important part, to be your coach, igtkan how to breath, time the contraction, help to keep calm.
1100hours
Doctor pun sampai nk check, lps the usual BP check, fever check sume tu, dia kuar kan satu alat besi. Bentuknya mcm conductor bus dulu2 clip tiket tu.
"bukak kaki, relax..Yang ni sakit sikit ye, tahan ye, doctor nak bukak jalan"
"tarik nafas panjang2"
Dia masukkan benda tu kat 'VG' pastu buat putaran maut 2,3 kali. Yg ni mmg betul sakit, terasa cam dirobek2, sabar je la.
1500hours
Masa ni still boleh borak2 lg ngn family,sambil tahan contraction.. sambil tu dok fikir dah berapa dilate ni, sure dah 6cm camtu. Doctor kata kalau dah 6cm dah bleh masuk labor room. Oh, meals served as usual. Dont forget to eat, you need energy to push.
Lunch is served
Bila doctor dtg check lg, dia kata baru 4cm. She decided to proceed to labor room sbb takut lama sgt baby nnt infected with germs since waterbag dah lama pecah.
Wah.. Masa ni dah cuak, i tgk my mom's face, dia tgk i.. Dua2 dah start nak emo. Sempat mintak diorg doakan i selamat semuanya. Ok this is it!
1730hours
Labor room
Coming in labor room, i dah set my mind not to take epidural. Kira mentally dah prepared to have the baby as natural as i could. Nurse ada bg pentadine 2 shots at the butt to ease the pain.. Not really ease la, cuma make u feel drowsy n ngntuk sikit.
Me and hubby berjuang dlm labor room lawan contraction, time ni dah about 5mins apart. Baru je habis 1 contraction, nk relax sikit, dtg lagi 1.. Kasi la laughing gas ke mmg x jln.
Around 9pm camtu, i'm soo tired already. Energy level mmg dah tinggal 20% je, dr ada bg drip utk kuatkan lg contraction so boleh bukak cepat lg, now baru 5cm!! Can u imagine lg 5cm to go.. Ni dah dekat 18jam tahan sakit.
Around this time heartbeat baby dah tak stable, i can hear from the machine bila contraction dtg je, her heartbeat slows down.
Dr discuss with me n hubby she's afraid of the risk if continue any longer. I had to be cut open.. C-sect.. I cant push with only 5cm dilation.
2230hours
Nurse siap2 kan i nk masuk operation theater. I kena masukkan tiub kat VG untuk air kencing. Klau masukkan tiub ni kita x sedar pun kencing, sbb air tu terus je mengalir kt packet tu without notice.
Contraction still ada, so bayangkn masa diorg transfer katil tu semua i hv to tahan lg, it was a gruesome time.
Masuk operation theater dr bius kasi 2 shots at my spinal utk proses separuh bius. She explained i am fully awake during operation, i can feel dr touching nudging, but no pain.. Kaki rasa berat je takleh gerak langsung
Masa tu mmg takde lngsung sakit, but i cant see the procedure. Kena tutup ngn kain.. I only can hear sound, the doctors talking n giving instruction.
First thing i rasa diorg potong pakai laser, sbb ada bunyi pastu cam ada bau daging terbakar. Then the dr do their thing, i can feel they tekan2 perut i, agaknya nk tolak baby ke bwh.
And then i hear the awaited sound.. The first time i hear my baby cries.. That is the most wonderful sound i've ever heard. For me i can remember her just "ehek ehek" takde la menangis kuat, ala2 manja je. Nurse dtg tunjuk baby pada i. Dia kata baby girl ya puan.. And showed her ehem2..Hehe..
Wah cam x caya she's in front of me! I kissed her cheeks sambil tu dah berkaca2 mata ni, apa yg doc buat pastu dah x kisah, i can just feel the nudging, nk kuar kn uri kot. Lps jahit2 sume i'm done.. The whole procedure tu about 1 1/2 jam je. Laju jer!
Selesailah proses melahirkan Mya Myiesha. Yang plg best antara semua is part operation kot, sbb x rasa apa pastu laju je. Yelah lps dekat 20 jam thn sakit..
Tp operation ni sakit nya lepas beberapa hari. Nk bgn kena slow, nk duduk nk kencing sume hati2..takleh urut right away..
Mya,
Mommy harap Mya besar nnt baca entri ni, Mya tau camne mommy lahirkan Mya. Mommy really hope u will be anak yg solehah, anak yg mendengar ckp.. Itu je mommy mintak. I love u so much baby!